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Conflict style pt 2

Question: "OK, I've done the conflict scale, now what?"

Answer: Now in part two I will help you interpret the scores a little better. you understand the styles, now let's apply them. I'll even use my example to show you how we can understand our partner better. I was having a conflict with Mrs. Eberhardt, so I did the sheet myself for the first time in a while. BAM! it nailed me.

Conflict style pt 2

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The Conflict Styles

There are styles to conflicts? Sure there are, and sometimes when we have conflict it is about the styles that we prefer rather than the conflict itself. Imagine that a person is trying to colaborate with someone and the other person is avoiding the conflict. What might you think would happen? How does each person appear to the other?

After you have listened to the Conflict style then try the conflict style worksheet. remember to follow these simple directions: Pick one particular conflict, with one particular person.

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R*E*S*P*E*C*T

Question: "I don't think I am Respected by my partner, but I really don't think I know what this means. What does it mean to be Respected? If you can help me figure this out, maybe I can be more clear in telling him what I want?"

Answer:

Learn about the 5 ways people are Respected, and what makes Emotionally Intimate relationships so Different!

Position, Status & Authority
Wisdom, Skill or Knowlege
How they Treat you.
What they Do for you.
And How they Lead Their Lives

LIsten to Dr. Pilet's interesting outlook here

Anticipated negative events

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How much of our interaction with other people is dependant upon who they are and how much is who we percieve them to be. ANE means that I am in effect peeing in my own pool.

This is Dr. Pilet, but I will be blogging my own MP3's by September first. I need your feedback to Shaw@GAPPER.US especially if you have questions, or there is a topic that you would like discussed.

but for now, here is anticipated negative events. oh, the irony